The Reward…

The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honour and life. “Proverb 22:4


Do you aspire to great things? Begin with little ones.
You desire to erect a very high building?
Think first of the foundation of humility.


“Light your lamps”

What are we to do if we are to overcome our weakness of soul? There are two means: prayer and detachment from self. Our Lord Jesus counsels us to watch. We must be on the watch if we want our heart to be pure, but our watching must be peaceful if our heart is to be touched. Because it can be moved by good things or bad, within or without. Thus we need to watch carefully.

As a general rule God’s inspiration is an unobtrusive grace; we mustn’t turn it away…; if our heart’s aren’t awake, grace turns back. Divine inspiration is very exact; just as a writer guides his pen so the grace of God guides the soul. So let us try hard to attain greater interior recollection.

Our Lord wants us to desire to love him. The watchful soul notices when it falls and realises that, of itself, it cannot reach its destination. That is why it experiences the need for prayer. Our petition is founded on the conviction that we can do nothing of ourselves but God can do all. Prayer is needed to obtain light and strength.


Happiness is not something far away. It is to be found neither in fame nor in popularity. When you live with integrity, your hearts begin to fill with a happiness as vast as the universe. It’s about being true to yourself and starting from where you are. From there your happiness will expand and grow limitlessly.

“Pray always without becoming weary”

If you want to set out in search of God without knowing how to go about it, learn to pray: force yourself simply to pray every day. You can pray anywhere, anytime. There’s no need at all to be in a chapel or church. You can pray while working: work doesn’t put a stop to prayer, nor prayer to work. If you feel in need of help, you can ask advice of a priest or pastor.

Try to talk directly to God. Speak to him; tell him everything, spontaneously, directly, just as it comes. He is the Father of us all. Whatever our religion might be, we have all been created by him and are his children. We can trust him, love him, believe in him, work for him. When we pray, our problems are resolved to the degree that it is good for us.

Without prayer I could not fulfil the work it is mine to do, not even for half an hour. I draw my strength from God by prayer.

Biblical Decision Making Steps

Biblical decision making begins with a willingness to submit your intentions to God’s perfect will and humbly follow his direction. The problem is that most of us don’t know how to figure out exactly what God’s will is in every decision we face—especially the big, life-altering decisions.

This step-by-step plan lays out a spiritual road map for biblical decision making. I learned this method almost twenty years ago while in Bible school and have used it time and time again throughout the many transitions of my life.

  1. Begin with prayer.Frame your attitude into one of trust and obedience as you commit the decision to prayer. There’s no reason to be fearful in decision making when you are secure in the knowledge that God has your best interest in mind.Jeremiah 29:11
    “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (NIV)

    1. Define the decision. Ask yourself if the decision involves a moral or non-moral area. It is actually a little easier to discern the will of God in moral areas because most of the time you will find clear direction in God’s Word. If God has already revealed his will in Scripture, your only response is to obey. Non-moral areas still require the application of biblical principles, however, sometimes the direction is harder to distinguish.Psalm 119:105
      Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. (NIV)


    2. Be ready to accept and obey God’s answer. It’s unlikely that God will reveal his plan if he knows already that you won’t obey. It is absolutely essential that your will be completely submitted to God’s. When your will is humbly and fully submitted to the Master, you can have confidence that he will illuminate your path.Proverbs 3:5-6
      Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
      do not depend on your own understanding.
      Seek his will in all you do,
      and he will show you which path to take.


    3. Exercise faith. Remember too, that decision making is a process that takes time. You may have to resubmit your will over and over again to God throughout the process. Then by faith, which pleases God, trust him with a confident heart that he will reveal his will.Hebrews 11:6
      And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. (NIV)


    4. Seek concrete direction. Begin investigating, evaluating and gathering information. Find out what the Bible says about the situation? Gain practical and personal information that relates to the decision, and begin writing down what you learn. 
    5. Obtain counsel. In difficult decisions it’s wise to get spiritual and practical counsel from the godly leaders in your life. A pastor, elder, parent, or simply a mature believer can often contribute important insight, answer questions, remove doubts and confirm inclinations. Make sure to choose individuals who will offer sound biblical advice and not just say what you want to hear.Proverbs 15:22
      Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. (NIV)


    6. Make a list. First write down the priorities you believe God would have in your situation. These are not the things that are important to you, but rather the things that are most important to God in this decision. Will the outcome of your decision draw you closer to God? Will it glorify him in your life? How will it impact those around you? 
    7. Weigh the decision. Make a list of the pros and cons connected with the decision. You may find that something on your list clearly violates the revealed will of God in his Word. If so, you have your answer. This is not his will. If not, then you now have a realistic picture of your options to help you make a responsible decision. 
    8. Choose your spiritual priorities. By this time you should have enough information to establish your spiritual priorities as they relate to the decision. Ask yourself which decision best satisfies those priorities? If more than one option will fulfill your established priorities, then choose the one which is your strongest desire!Sometimes God gives you a choice. In this case there is no right and wrong decision, but rather a freedom from God to choose, based on your preferences. Both options are within God’s perfect will for your life and both will lead to the fulfillment of God’s purpose for your life.


    9. Act on your decision. If you have arrived at your decision with the sincere intention of pleasing the heart of God, incorporating biblical principles and wise counsel, you can proceed with confidence knowing that God will work out his purposes through your decision.Romans 8:28
      And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (NIV)




“Do not be afraid”

The real reason why your meditation isn’t always successful is this – and I’m not mistaken! You begin your meditation worried and anxious. This is enough for you never to find what you are looking for, because your mind isn’t focussed on the truth you are meditating on and there is no love in your heart. This worry is useless. All you get from it is a great spiritual fatigue and a kind of coldness of soul, especially at the feeling level. I don’t know any other cure for it except to come out of this anxiety. Indeed, it’s one of the greatest obstacles to religious practice and the life of prayer. It makes us rush to trip over.

I honestly don’t want to dispense you from meditation simply because it seems to you that you don’t get any result from it. To the extent you create an emptiness in you – indeed, that you free yourself humbly from this attachment – our Lord will give you the gift of prayer he keeps in his right hand.

How to Love God Unconditionally

  • Rid yourself of preconceived ideas as they usually affect the way we relate to God and express our love towards Him. It is important for us to have our minds renewed which is simply changing our way of thinking. Romans 12:2 instructs us to allow God to transform (make over) our minds. As you take on this task, you must remember that allowing God to renew your mind is a daily process.
  • Expect to sense God’s presence more and His overwhelming love for you. It will stir up within you the desire to express your love for Him even more. At this step, make a firm commitment to love God without reservation. Proverbs 16:3 tells us to commit our works unto the Lord and He will establish us. When you commit to loving God totally, He will see your heart and help you fulfill your desires
  • Practice humility as it will help you keep your commitment firm. Humility is submitting to God and His leading. Micah 6:8 tells us that God requires that we walk humbly with Him. As you do this, a more intimate relationship with God develops and your unconditional love for Him grows.
  • Create an action plan as it is needed to keep your mind renewed, your commitment firm and your spirit humble. My suggestion for an action plan is to study God’s word daily, practice positive confessions daily, and commune with Him throughout the day in prayer. The key is to pour your love onto God and He will definitely do the same to you


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